Readers’ Favorite 5-Star Review of Loving the Fire:

Review by Carol Thompson

Loving the Fire: Choosing Me, Finding Freedom by Deborah Santana is a reflective memoir about her journey to personal freedom and spiritual insight. The story starts on New Year’s Eve when the author realizes that the life she has lived for decades in a high-profile marriage no longer reflects her true self. She decides to begin a transformative process that drives the entire story. Santana looks back on her childhood and family roots, describing the strong influence of her grandparents, whose faith and determination helped guide many generations of their family. Their history includes migrating from the American South, creating church communities, and developing deep spiritual traditions that became central to Santana’s upbringing. The author shares the experiences that shape her identity as a woman, mother, philanthropist, and advocate for others, offering a portrait of a woman who gradually learns to trust her own voice and find a new path.

Deborah Santana writes with a thoughtful, reflective voice as she describes the reasons for leaving her 34-year marriage. The chapters move with a steady rhythm, often weaving family stories, cultural history, and moments of insight that shape the author’s perspective. The prose is descriptive and smooth, allowing scenes from her childhood, family life, and travels to unfold clearly. The pacing encourages readers to follow the author as she recalls defining experiences and the people who influenced her life. Those who enjoy memoirs focused on personal growth, family heritage, and spiritual exploration will connect with the tone and structure of Loving the Fire. Those interested in stories that link personal history with larger cultural and social themes will also find much to engage with throughout the narrative. Santana's story is inspiring, as is her self-discovery and strength to move forward with her life.